Anyue Sun is a 10 years old Y5 primary school student. With a keen sense of the joy of life, she loves singing and got the third place of “Mainland-HongKong-Taiwan” English singing final contest. Had stayed in Malaysia for 2 years and been traveled to many countries which buildup an open mind, friendly but independent thinking girl. As school TV director, She loves work with people and making friends. In some ways, she is “a good girl in other people’s eyes”. But after many times rejected by her best friend’s parents Not allow kids play together which almost killed the girls friendship. And as a teenager, she is also suffering on how to be herself and balance the parenting. She found that “NO” is a common things in kid-parenting. So she did research on different country parenting and kid psychology theory and proved that “Parents should listen to kids” and stop been as a “Snowplows parents” is good for kids. She want to share parents that 父母要孩子听话，请先听孩子说话. 2018港澳台儿童歌唱大赛总决赛英文独唱季军 校学生TV台导演 校合唱队主唱 the third place of “Mainland-HongKong-Taiwan” English singing final contest school TV director lead singer of the school choir This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx