Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You To Be Rich talks to Jonathan and Shalom. They are young, 31 and 27, have been married for 5 years and they're getting used to a big addition to their lives—a rushed home purchase in the Pacific Northwest that tints their relationship with conflict. Jonathan buries himself in the numbers. Shalom buries her head in the sand. – 🚨 GET RAMIT SETHI’S WEEKLY MONEY NEWSLETTER * I share news ways to think about money every Saturday. Get the emails here: https://iwt.com/podcastnewsletter-yt 🙌 GET HELP FROM RAMIT SETHI * Take control of your money with the Conscious Spending Plan: https://iwt.com/csp-youtube * Optimize your credit cards with the 1st chapter of my book: https://iwt.com/chapter1-youtube * Join my Money Coaching program for monthly help: https://iwt.com/moneycoaching-youtube 🤳 CONNECT WITH RAMIT SETHI * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ramit/ * X: https://twitter.com/ramit * LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramitsethi/ ✅ SUBSCRIBE SO YOU DON’T MISS ANY EPISODES null – This episode is brought to you by: Facet | Get affordable, accessible financial planning with a flat fee membership. For a limited time, the $250 enrollment fee will be waived when you sign up at https://facet.com/ramit. DeleteMe | If you want to get your personal information removed from the web, go to https://joindeleteme.com/ramit for 20% off. Methodology | Visit https://gomethodology.com/ramit and use code RAMIT for 10% off your first order of Methodology. Long Angle | If you've made a lot of money and you're looking for a community of peers to turn to for advice, go to https://www.longangle.com/ to learn more. – Can’t-miss moments 00:00:00 — 1: Opening 00:03:23 — 2: They went on a date and… bought a house? 00:09:32 — 3: Jonathan reveals he's losing sleep over the house 00:19:56 — 4: Can they afford furniture? 00:24:17 — 5: Ramit is shocked by Shalom's feelings about their new floors 00:28:52 — 6: How did Jonathan grow up with money? 00:31:13 — 7: Shalom describes her upbringing in Ethiopia 00:39:57 — 8: Ramit breaks down their numbers 00:42:19— 9: Their hilarious fight about the landscaping 00:47:29 — 10: Ramit gives them a new way to think about putting money into a house 00:50:38 — 11: Their perspective starts to change 00:54:19 — 12: Where are they now? Their follow-up messages – If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here: https://forms.gle/pjYMaLeThJM3z9uN6 Produced by Crate Media.