Have you ever wonder why almost every time it is the traumatic & unpleasant experiences that will always push you to be better? Especially with regards to people. Its because our evolutionary set of social needs, initially drive us to invest a lot of ourselves into the people we want to conform with, and through that profound investment, we sacrifice our trust and respect on which, if broken, will result in you experiencing an unparalleled whirlwind of doubts & questions because your expectations does not meet the reality that you witnessed. Humans are capable of love & compassion, but they are also capable of selfishness & violence. Our own failure or misjudgments of people will eventually drive us to want to understand them better, and in the process also transform our character & personality in congruence with our new mindset and perspectives to the reality that we've experienced. Time Code: Intro: 0:00 - 1:09 Why We Learn More From Defeats Than Victories: 1:10 - 2:19 How Understanding The Reality Of People Can Ignite Hate: 2:20 - 2:47 Why Our Social Discrepancies Scarred Us: 2:48 - 3:40 Social Mishaps, Conflicts & Clashes Are Inevitable: 3:41 - 4:49 See People For What They Are & Continue To Better Yourself: 4:50 - 6:14 Outro: 6:15 - 6:52 Support the channel: ✔️ PayPal: https://www.paypal.me/ForgedInHardship ✔️ Bitcoin: 1MNKubjwvDxpbNzC2cE7FiFGdgctPSBrVa ✔️ Ethereum: 0xd3d907f2401b91e2e66e67ec5815e74b11538ca5 #toxicfriend #fakefriend #badpeople #evilpeople #enemies