"Don't give a sh*t about what other people think of you!!!"
is what has been fed to us for as long as we can remember that line. That statement can only come from people who once cared too much and paid the price for being vulnerable, naïve & ignorant about how communication between people works & behaves in reality. Opinions & criticisms are inevitable when it comes to communication, and being too enthusiastically & idealistically open about them, makes you prone & unprepared to defend yourselves against the extremes of verbal abuse & bullying, and being too begrudgingly resentful about them, will eventually make you become deluded within your own opinion and sabotaging the opportunity for you to grow. Its all about selecting which of them we should care & which of them we should care, and how do we select them? This video answers that
Time Code:
Intro: 0:00 - 0:22
We Cannot Completely Ignore People's Opinions: 0:23 - 1:33
When We Care Too Much About People's Opinions: 1:34 - 2:20
How to Select Which Ones to Care & Ignore : 2:21 - 3:26
Method #1: 3:27 - 4:27
Method #2: 4:28 - 5:24
Method #3: 5:25 - 7:02
Your Own Realistic & Pragmatic Outlook Matters More in The End: 7:03 - 8:15
#criticism #people #cyberbullying
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