Original Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPU0JcjybkY In this thought-provoking video, Dr. Gabor Maté engages in a deep and enlightening conversation about the fears and responsibilities that come with the idea of parenthood. Addressing a potential mother's concerns, Dr. Maté explores how past experiences and traumas can influence our fears about parenting. He reassures her that being aware of these fears is the first step towards not perpetuating them, highlighting the importance of self-awareness in breaking cycles of trauma. Dr. Maté listens to the woman's personal reflections and questions about her parents' journey towards self-discovery, which only started later in their lives. This moment allows Dr. Maté to discuss the impact of parents' emotional work on their children, emphasizing how transformative it can be for parents to start this journey even before their children are born. His response is both comforting and insightful, suggesting that by simply questioning and acknowledging her fears, she is already preparing a better emotional environment for her future children. This video captures a powerful exchange that underscores the significance of understanding our past to positively shape our future, especially in the context of parenting. Dr. Gabor Maté’s wisdom and empathy provide invaluable lessons for anyone contemplating parenthood or struggling with the shadows of their past. This is a must-watch for individuals seeking to understand the deep-seated origins of their fears and how to confront them for the sake of the next generation.